A love letter to planning — and to the free spirits I love, who arrive at the same magic their own way.

Why I'm Trying to Bring Old-School Gathering Back

I came across this quote recently, and it struck me because it isn't really about money or chores...

Amor fati - the love of fate - sounds like surrender. Love your fate—accept what comes, embrace it fully, want nothing to be different. And yet the people who live by it are rarely passive...